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Posted by Anon (!) Sep 2005 in 'Suggest a new Forum:' How about a forum where we can tell secrets publicly and bare our soles and release that devil from our head so we don't have the pressure hanging over us.
Posted by Anon (!) Sep 2005 in 'Suggest a new Forum:' How about a forum where we can tell secrets publicly and bare our soles and release that devil from our head so we don't have the pressure hanging over us.
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| Please don't try to advertise products or services in this forum. Thank you. Post or Ask something here in 'Confessional' Confessional CAN ANYONE HELP????Hi. I am a mature women who is desperatly seeking work. I will do anything I do not mind what. Please if there is anyone out there that can help me i would be more than grateful. I used to be an office temp but because of the shortage of jobs the agency give younger females work and I am forgotten. PLEASE HELP ME! Post reply -->London Confessional Suzy 22 Feb Confessional ORTHODOX MONK , 29 y.o. After 6 years of Monastery meditation in the mountains of Transylvania in loneliness i am looking for friends in UK to to show my love learned in the Abbey. I am not a fake, i want to find a good pal. e-mail: Mail-me Post reply -->London Confessional Ivancov Kata 8 Feb Confessional My confessionI am in a sexless relationship with someone. I like her and she is lovely. I know she likes me too. but I can't remember what was the last time we had have sex. Being a 30 year old male it is so difficult to cope up with this kind of situation. Most of the time we are together but still I fancy to meet someone else who is in the same situation. I am planning to register myself to adult websites to meet people. Mail-me Post reply -->London Confessional JD 4 Oct Confessional AdulteryI'm a married 30 year old with 2 young boys and I have fallen in love with another woman....It makes me sick to the stomach, why have I let this happen? Post reply -->London Confessional J 20 Aug Confessional I am prepared to help you in your confessional matter.Well let me firet introduce my self briefly, I am a priest but I live with common people as a common man. My name is Milan which has the meaning of beloved in many languages in the world. I practice meditation of loving kindness. I am trying to spread my love to all universal beings, well as a part of my life program I am looking to help to a lady who needs pure love . I am not prepared to have a sexual relationship as I am a priest but still I am prepared to get her married. Please text your details to my mobile number 07529545687 Many thanks, peace be with you. Milan. Post reply -->London Confessional Milan 1 May Confessional Im so lonelyI live with a man who cant communicate and I often feel quite desperate. My children are grown and live, one in Oz the other N Devon and apart from one friend I have no one. I feel I should leave my husband but he is basically a good man, and we share a lot in common - but he just cannot talk. He sometimes sends me short emails suggesting we do something but doesnt mention them when he gets home. We often say nothing for days: he doesnt seem to notice; behaves as if everything is normal, offers me a cup of tea. We have tried therapy but he communicates painfully slowly in three word sentences and I love to talk so I feel I need to find friends, join a club and just get a life away from him to keep sane. Post reply -->London Confessional Lesley 26 Jan | These aren't commercial ads below: they are a rotating selection of postings contributed by MoveThat.com users in the last 24h. |
 | ^ Confessional LonelyFor all you ladies out there who are complaining you're lonely, there is a way out. Many of you seem to be in the same situation - kist read all these posts, most of the say the same thing. So why not all get together and arrange one large meeting in a public place and all get to know eachother? Is anyone interested in this idea? Post reply -->London Confessional Belinda 18 Aug Confessional Where are you?I confess I am desperately fighting to find an accommodation for me and my 2 cats-Mr.Ginger and Mr.Niunio.How much I can pay-up to 150 pw,no more. Where are you our pet friendly future landlord? Answer for god's sake.Break the silence for I want to hear your voice. Lamia Mail-me Post reply -->London Confessional lamia 4 Dec Confessional my husband used to prostitute himself as a womanmy husband used to a prostitute to men. he had a relationship with one of two pimps ,on off for 8 years,had a drug problem from a teenager after being raped in a police cell.he then became a heshe so he could make more money for drug problem .he told me early on in our relationship & as a friend it wouldnt have botherd me ,i thought he was my soulmate until he told me ,ive been devastated since ,even though he put his past behind him ,his past discusts me. three years later & children ,i thought i could over come his past the way he has but i hate him even more the time goes on .i have always tried to avoid men with a messed up past because of the way i know i would take it .he realy loves me & i know i would love him the same if it wasnt for his past.i feel life has played a cruel trick on me .i love my children i hate life .how would you feel if you found out your girlfriend used to be a prostite & the only reason they told you was because the pimp was gonna tell you first before yo Post reply -->London Confessional p 24 Jun ^ Confessional Husband Pros - PastHi Past is like something under skin. Don't scratch too much,it wud bleed and pain. Can you do something to undo what happened due to circumstances then ? If you can't, then just let it go. Can you rewind it ? If you can't then play present and move forward. If the present is good, play it. Why do you look back, what 's the need to rewind ? The more you look back and then try to forget/adjust, more difficult would it be... Just move on with flow. Practice sitting alone with your eyes shut and count your breath 1-10... Practice it. Mark my words, this 'past problem' would appear to you trivial and your would love him more. If you want to further discuss, E Mail-me I simply help by chatting without any obligations. Take care of your present. Don't worry what had happened several years back. Hold every moment of present. Live in your present. Just DO IT. Post reply -->London Confessional Mathumia 25 Jun ^ ConfessionalDo you know which aspect of his history upsets you the most? Maybe if you could work this out it might help. I met a girl once who became hooked on opium and worked as a S&M dominatrix. She described how all she really wanted was to love and be loved, and that a bad sequence of events tipped her into a state where she couldn't trust people. The drugs and her relationships with customers became her substitute for a real relationship. I don't think it necessarily takes lot to tip people over. I'm not surprised to hear your friend had trouble in his teenage years. I think it genuinely takes courage and resolve to come back. You say that you want to avoid men with messed up past, and I do understand this. I just wanted to suggest that maybe the love you get from someone who has been to dark place and come back is different, more wise, more intense than from someone who has never had to struggle. Please forgive me if this is a clumsy reply. Post reply -->London Confessional 30 Jul ^ Confessional reply of confesion of my husbandto the second person thank you for a reply .it seems like a more logical piece of advice to analize ,the first person who responded thankyou to,it just seemed a bit simplistic i wish i felt that way & just forget & move on ,hate & bitterness can be complex ,when my partner is trusting me as a best friend & because of my partner i now trust no one except my children.im always looking for an excuse to leave him & he cant understand what he has done wrong ,his loyalty is unwavering ,but all i want to do is leave him its very selfish of me because we have children ,i keep having children hoping my feelings for him would change,i do love him but it never goes away .i will stay for the kids & for him but not sure how long it will last or if i will find true happiness with him,we will see Post reply -->London Confessional p 2 Aug Confessional Im LonelyI have never spoken out loud before about this. It’s embarrassing for me to admit I have no friends. I go to work every day then come home have dinner and watch television. That is it... Every weekend including the long Bank Holiday ones, I find myself alone. Sometimes I cry but mostly I try not to think about my loneliness. This evening I realised I have to make a serious effort to get a best friend. But I don’t have a clue where to start. I don’t want to meet someone who is just interested in going to nightclubs. I’m looking for someone I can talk to on a regular basis, pop over to their place with a bottle or mine whichever. I’m female in my early thirties based in Willesden Green, London. There must be others out there like me I wish I could find them. If you recognise yourself in anything I have said or if you feel you have some words of wisdom for me please please message me on Mail-me Post reply -->London Confessional C 11 May ^ Confessional LonelyHi maybe check out plusgroups.org.uk - national federation of 18 plus groups for 18 to 35 year olds, social group to meet others looking to expand their social life Post reply -->London Confessional clare 15 May ^ Confessional Response to Im LonelyIt was as though I was reading about myself - I'm in exactly the same boat as you and I'm sure we're not alone. It is really hard to make friends when you are over 30, I'm 34 and I get really frustrated because you need friends to be able to go out and meet new ones - we can't wander the streets of London with a sign post saying I'm lonely, please help. I don't know what the answer is, but I've left my email address if you want to contact me. Mail-me Post reply -->London Confessional L 29 May ^ Confessional This world of strangers...Hi M I was quite touched by your posting on this website. But trust me you are NOT ALONE in thinking like this. In this city of LONDONERS, I guess there are thousands who are in similar situations like yours and 'mine' too. Many like us have somehow not been able to get into the circle. We wait and wait at the periphery to be called inside the circle. And at times, our efforts to get into one are either rejected or ridiculed. I found several ways to deal with it including Yoga, Meditation, Naturism, Cooking and spending time with myself. These helped, but surely I need sometimes someone who can share, feel with me. Whom I can appreciate and motivate... If you like please mention or send me a line. We can progress further. Take care.. Mail-me Post reply -->London Confessional Mathumia 9 Jun ^ Confessional you must have an interest in somthingDo you like photography, dance, painting or art? join a club then you will be with people with the same interest as you. that is how you could meet a friend that also have the same interest as you. good luck Post reply -->London Confessional 25 Jan ^ Confessional Reply to "im lonely"I'm also a female in my 30's. I'm in a similar predicament to yourself. I don't have enough good female friends here in London. I live in the Merton area. I'm not sure if this is too far for you to travel, but please do feel free to get in touch with me. Best wishes. Mail-me Post reply -->London Confessional ses. 15 May ^ Confessionalthat's so strange, I was just coming on here to post something similar. Only difference is, I have kids so if it wasn't for them..... I still want friends too though but don't know where to start either - i'm in my thirties like you. I just find it terribly embarrasing when people ask me about friends because I just don't have even one. I feel lost sometimes. Post reply -->London Confessional 31 May ^ Confessional This world of strangers...Hi Friendship creates no boundaries for kids. You can have kids as well as friends. Take life in a flow... pls contact Mail-me Post reply -->London Confessional Mathumia 20 Jun Confessional hummmI like this confessional! It means that you can say anything you like in here. Just write you heart out. Be honest about your feelings. I am 29 and feeling a bit lonely in this big city packed with people. I had a a few close friends but they moved away.... So, I know find myself craving for some intimate friendship. Friends I could go out with, do things with such as cinema, bars, clubs, walks, dinner, cook, drink, talk to and do all these beautiful things that friends usually do together, such as support each other.... I really miss that. Any ideas on how to find friends in London anyone? I enjoy a lot of diferent activities and easy going. Post reply -->London Confessional 8 Mar ^ Confessional National Federation of 18 Plus GroupsHi you could check out their website and see if any groups in your area, for people wishing to widen their social life for 18s to 35s Post reply -->London Confessional Clare 16 Mar ^ Confessional HummmThere are many places you can go to make friends, groups and clubs, etc. It is a bit difficult to give you advice as I don't know whether you are female or male. The importance of that is that knowing would be better to point you in one direction or another. Mail-me Post reply -->London Confessional Hummm 31 Mar ^ Confessional Re: hummmConfessional can any one helpHi I'm a young single mother 29 of a happy active boy of 9. i am soooo lonely, i don't have any friends as all my friends are single with no kids and i feel they pity me, which i really don't want, someone very close to me has just passed away and i feel so lost , lonely and empty, and i keep finding that i am pushing my son away. i really don't want to live anymore and each day i am finding the fight to live harder. has anyone got any advice for me please.................. really could do with some help thank you Post reply -->London Confessional m 21 Jan ^ Confessional can anyone helpM, I think you should see your GP to see if they can refer you for some counselling or mental health support as you are going through a rough time and are thinking about not being alive. Losing someone close can be a very painful and difficult time. I lost my Mum almost 3 years ago and still miss her every day. I had bereavement counselling which taught me rather than thinking that the pain of the bereavement will get less (which I did not want to hear) rather that I would learn to grow around it....and to be honest I have. There is a way forward for you and your son and you owe it to both of you to seek help to start looking at how. CRUSE do a good website on bereavement, MIND produce loads of materials to help with feeling low - there is also the samaritans available every day. But I think see your GP or contact your local mental health team - there is one in every area - who can help you with the right track. Good luck. Post reply -->London Confessional LM 23 Jan ^ ConfessionalHey, You need to start taking control of your life...step at a time. Have you talked about this to some close friends of yours? You will be surprised at how supportive people are! Also, how about taking up an activity that you really enjoy. Give yourself some "me" time and it would also be a great way to meet some new people. Hope it helps. Post reply -->London Confessional xarg 29 Jan ^ Confessional mHi M what area do you live in? I could see whether any services around which may be of help to you. Post reply -->London Confessional Clare 7 Feb ^ ConfessionalBeen trying to answer you with what I think are a couple of constructive points ever since you posted but somehow can't get anything longer than a line accepted. Mail-me Post reply -->London Confessional Tamsin 8 Feb ^ ConfessionalDear sister I read your post. Please email me if you are still looking for someone to talk to. my email is: Mail-me Kindest regards Post reply -->London Confessional Mark Fox 29 Feb |